By Chris Nikolov
Often wait for opportunities, but is it worth waiting for opportunities? My answer no, it isn’t. First of all you can’t depend on pure luck, you never know if you will be granted with a great opportunity or not. So why do you want to be dependent on luck?
Instead you could be and should be dependent on yourself. This is the only sure way you know you will be granted with opportunity.
Opportunities are missed by most people because they don’t realise they have encountered such.
Here is one of the basic laws in life: There will always be opportunities for those who recognise and pursue them. The lucky people are simply those who have more chances than average.
Know your limits
You can’t be perfect. You can’t do everything yourself. You can’t create a business or live the life of your dreams or make a lot of money if you don’t know your weakness, strength and passions. If you know your limit and what you are capable of, you will know exactly what you need. Once you begin to know yourself, you will realise your weakness and you can fill these weakness with other people’s strength.
Open your eyes
There is a lot more happening in the world than you see. Stop listening to music all the time when you are riding the bus or taxi. Maybe there is someone who can change your life in that bus or taxi. Maybe the person sitting next to you is your next business partner or your husband/wife or your new best friend. You just never know, life is unpredictable, and that’s why you should always keep your eyes wide open. You might miss opportunity simply because you were too busy listening to music on your phone. Always be on the lookout even when doing simple activities as drinking coffee, riding the bus or walking back home.
Meet new people
If you want to be presented with more opportunities, simply meet new people. The more people you know, the higher chances you will be presented with new experiences. Go to meetings with people having similar interests as you. Visit conferences. You can even meet people online these days; join different Facebook groups, follow people on twitter, join LinkedIn. People are not so mean as you think. Also if you are one of those people who meet a lot people on daily basis and have a problem remembering their names this app will help you a lot-Anki (This app will make you never forget a name, a job position or age again. It does miracles. )
Don’t be afraid to ask
There is no shame in not knowing something, and there is no shame in questioning things. Do you know how I got my first job? I simply asked the manager could I work here and after he interrogated me a bit he said; Yes. So I found a job by simply asking a question in a company that wasn’t looking for employees. Most people would gladly help you if you ask them nicely for some help.
Don’t be afraid to try different approach
In Bulgaria (the country I am from) blogging is not something people make money out of. When I decided I wanted to blog, people laughed at me to find myself a serious job. But I didn’t think so; I knew I could create a successful blog myself and that all happened thanks to the steps I mentioned above. And in the end I did. Now I am earning five times more than what my friends are earning. I am working from home, I work when I want to. Just because the masses of people think something is wrong doesn’t mean they are right.
You should visit different places at least one time a year. This way, you will meet new people and also might be presented with an opportunity that simply doesn’t exit at your hometown.
Build self confidence
You can’t let people follow you if you don’t look confident. That’s why you need to confidence, you need to be sure 120 percent things will work out right in the end if you want other people to believe you as well. It might be fake confidence, but you need to have it. Most people follow the leaders even when they make bad decisions simply because of their leadership status. And if you could make people follow you, you will surely be able to create a lot of opportunities for yourself/ your company/ your work place. Keep learning. Learning is a process that never ends. You can always learn something new. Always maintain the attitude of a student. If you think you are done learning, then bitterness set in, but if you have more to achieve every day in an arena that makes each morning awaking full of potentials and cheery portent. In the end, all comes to doing. You will never get presented with opportunities by sitting and watching television all day. Go out, feel, see, be and take part of live. If you are active and always on the lookout, you will always end up on the right place in the right moment. - motivationgrid